In John 13, Jesus begins with clarity: “His hour had come.” He did not turn away. Courage is born not in denial, but in facing reality. When our family faced Millie’s terminal diagnosis, clarity—though devastating—brought courage. The mission was simple: make her smile.

What follows in John’s Gospel is a basin and towel. Jesus strips away garments, kneels, and washes feet. No words. Only clarity expressed as service. This was not performance humility—it was obedience to his inner compass. Strength first, then service.

Jesus dismantled rank without despising role. Master and servant, messenger and sender—all are equal. Our culture overwrites this code, but it can be reinstalled with daily training: silence, noticing, applying truth instead of norm.

Too often, we put Jesus on a pedestal to admire, not follow. But discipleship is not unreachable perfection. It is training—daily, incremental improvement in clarity, courage, and love.